Japan's robotics industry has been at the forefront of developing care robots, but despite significant investment and policy support, these machines are still far from being fully-fledged carers. The author, an expert in robotics and social sciences, explores the challenges and limitations of current robotic care technologies in Japan, highlighting the gap between staged demonstrations and everyday reality. The article delves into the unique human skills required in caregiving, such as emotional support and adaptability, which are difficult to replicate in robots. It also examines the public's perspective on robotic care, noting the tension between the practical benefits of robotic assistance and the emotional aspects of caregiving. The author argues that while robots can assist with physical tasks and routine monitoring, they should never fully replace human carers. The future of care robotics, according to the author, lies in technologies that complement human care, ensuring access to good-quality care without deepening inequalities or losing the human touch. The article concludes by emphasizing the need for responsible research and innovation practices in the field of care robotics, urging a reevaluation of the role of technology in shaping the future of care.